Category: Write the Word

Does your pride keep you from loving well?

Does your pride keep you from loving well?

Oh, pride.   The word in itself has so many different meanings.  We take pride in our country.  We pride ourselves on our accomplishments.  I’m proud of my children when they meet their goals.  I’m proud of the hard work I put into that project.  I’m too proud to admit that I let my children’s behavior dictate my feelings toward them sometimes.  I was too proud to admit I was wrong in an argument with my husband.  My pride keeps me from humbling myself and letting God work in my heart.

 

While feeling proud of hard work or an accomplish may seem innocent enough, I have found that many times I let that feeling of being proud turn into arrogant pride.  I took credit for the things that God accomplished.  You see, I now know good and well that I would never have been able to accomplish some of the things I have without Him.

 

Is your pride keeping you from loving others well? Jump into this 30-day Scripture writing plan and let God do His refining work in your heart!

 

My career has been a perfect example of this.  Several years ago, I taught middle school English.  I was a good teacher.  I knew it.  My data proved it.  I received the affirmations from my students and my administration.  Other teachers were sent to my classroom to see how they should be running their classrooms.  Oh gracious me… I found myself in such a heaping pile of pride that I couldn’t see straight.  I can see now how much damage and hurt I caused the teachers around me.  My friends.  I was absolutely not giving God credit for the great things happening in my classroom.  Sure, I acknowledged that He gave me gifts as a teacher, but it was MY doing that increased those students scores.  It was MY doing that the administration applauded my accomplishments.  Those other teachers should be doing things MY way.

 

Thankfully, God has done some bigtime work in changing my heart.  And if I’m brutally honest, it hurt.  I was humbled…. rather, my pride humiliated me.  True humility came later.  And it’s still an area where I’m still being refined.

 

In Luke 18:9-14, we read the parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector.

Then, Jesus told this story to some who had great confidence in their own righteousness ans scorned everyone else: “Two men went to the Temple to pray.  One was a Pharisee, and the other was a despised tax collector.  The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed this prayer: ‘I thank You, God, that I am not like other people – cheaters, sinners, adulterers.  I’m certainly not like that tax collector! I fast twice a week, and I give You a tenth of my income.’ 

But the tax collector stood at a distance and dared not even lift his eyes to heaven as he prayed.  Instead, he beat his chest in sorrow saying, ‘O God, be merciful to me, for I am a sinner.’ I tell you, this sinner, not the Pharisee, returned home justified before God. For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”

 

Oh how I’ve been that Pharisee.  How I’ve judged and exalted myself above others.  By the grace of God, I can see how He’s working in me.  I hate my pride.  I pray regularly for Him to continue to humble my heart so I can love those around me.  I’m so thankful that God is a redeeming and faithful God.

Is your pride keeping you from loving others well?  Jump into this 30-day Scripture writing plan and let God do His refining work in your heart!

Starting on August 1, I challenge each of you to work through this Scripture-writing plan over pride.  I pray that God will move mountains to remove these hearts of stone that we hold on to.  I pray that we will humble ourselves to see where our pride has damaged relationships.  I pray that we will see where where we can love instead of judge.

 

Please join us.  I’ll be posting over in our Gather & Dwell Facebook group.  We’ll continue the conversation, pray for each other, and encourage each other as God does His refining and redeeming work in our hearts.  I’m so excited to see where He leads us through this next month!

 


 

 

 

30 Verses to Abide in Christ

30 Verses to Abide in Christ

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Oh… it’s a beautiful day!  I’m sitting in my office with all of the blinds open.  My boys and I set some plants out on the back patio to get some sunlight.  My dog is laying outside basking in the warmth.  On days like today, it’s easy to just rest in His peace.

 

Other days… not so much.  One of the things that God has really been speaking into me lately is the idea of abiding in Him.  Not rushing His plans.  Not trying to check Bible studies off my list.  Not rushing through this season in anticipation of the next.  He’s asking me to remain in Him.

 

Dwell in His presence during this 30-day Scripture-writing plan over abiding in Christ.

 

Sometimes I know the teacher in me wants to read all the books.  I want to learn all the history.  I want to study all the things.  In this season, though, I’m hearing Him loud and clear.  I am to pause.  I am to linger a little longer in my quiet time.  I am to listen attentively to His Words.  I am to dwell in His presence.

 

Revelation 3:14 says, “‘The Amen, the faithful and true Witness, the Originator of God’s creations says: I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I am going to vomit you out of My mouth.'”  Yikes!

 

I most definitely do NOT want to be lukewarm.  I remember a song from my middle school youth group years.  I can’t remember most of the lyrics, but I remember the tune and words of two lines.  “I don’t want to be a casual Christian.  I don’t want to live a lukewarm life.”

 

As I’m transitioning into a season of being more present for my family, I’m longing to draw nearer to Him.  As I’m folding laundry and reading picture books… as I’m cooking dinner and gathering around the table… I’m longing to poke and prod that glowing ember in my soul until it becomes a roaring fire.

 

As we are often pulled in many directions during this day-to-day life, I encourage you to pause.   This 30-day Scripture-writing plan is designed to encourage you to linger over His Words, His commands, His love… and to dwell in His presence long after you’ve closed your Bible, gotten up from the table, and are right in the middle of the chaos of the day.  It’s designed to remind you to abide in Him.

 

Dwell in His presence during this 30-day Scripture-writing plan over abiding in Christ.

 

I’m starting today.  Join me on Instagram and use the hashtag #AbideInHim!  Also, be sure to subscribe to our newsletter and follow us on Bloglovin to never miss a post!

 

 

Are you sharing gossip more than the Gospel?

Are you sharing gossip more than the Gospel?

Our words. They can build someone up or tear someone down in the same moment.  Our words are so powerful that we can hear what someone else *might* have said to someone else *possibly* about us, and our entire emotional state can go from one end of the spectrum to the other.

 

As moms, our words have the power to encourage our children and affirm who they are in Christ… or our words can break them down little by little until they begin to question their worth and our love for them.  As wives, our words can speak love, support and respect into our husbands… or our words can belittle them into thinking they’re bumbling fools.

 

I read a study once that concluded that women tend to bond over negativity.  Two women meet and are engaged in small talk.  The conversation isn’t going well and it’s hard to really catch a topic… until they discover a common dislike.  Then, they can go on for hours discovering all the hate they have in common.  Confession time… I can think of more than one friendship of mine that started this very way.

 

My current Bible study, Discerning the Voice of God, asked us to name a few areas or behaviors that we would have never thought twice about before deciding to follow Jesus.  There were a few things on my list, but gossip was one of them.  I not only didn’t give it a second thought, I craved it.  I wanted to know how messed up everyone else was.  I wanted to know that “at least I don’t have that problem.”  And I wanted to be the one to heard the latest *news* first.

Are you sharing gossip more than the Gospel? This 30-day Scripture writing plan will help point your heart (and your words) back to God.

You know, it’s no wonder that many of my friendships during that season didn’t last.

 

But God.  He’s a God of forgiveness.  A God of heart-change.  A God of relationship.

Mark 16:15 tells us to “go into all the world and preach the gospel to the whole creation.”   So friends, I ask you. are your words spreading gossip… or the gospel?

I’m a big believer in memorizing Scripture.  I believe that when we fill our minds with the Word of God, the lies of the enemy have no room to creep in.  When God’s Word is so firmly written on our hearts, those are the words we turn to in the heat of a moment.

 

Over the next 30 days, I’m writing through the Word.  I’ve selected 30 verses, and I’m praying the Spirit will work in me and sanctify my words, thoughts and actions.  I pray He will renew my mind and that my words will spread only encouragement, Truth, and Love.  I pray that I will flee from spreading the latest “news” and that I will spread only His Good News.

Are you sharing gossip more than the Gospel? This 30-day Scripture writing plan will help point your heart (and your words) back to God.

 

Join us on Instagram as we write the Word!  Let’s encourage each other as God works to refine each of us in this journey!

 


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